How To Seduce a Man – 5 Tips Women Can Use Today


How to capture a man’s attention and then seduce him!

There he is… You see him standing tall, well groomed with a style and look that you are attracted to. He’s caught your eye briefly, and you are hoping that he’s noticed you. So now you’re asking yourself, “What can I do to seduce this man?”

Well you don’t need to worry about that at all. I’m here to show you some of the most effective things you can use to your advantage to seduce a man. These five tips can be applied to a man you’ve met and would like to seduce and date, or they can be applied to any man you haven’t yet met but would like to seduce and date.

Before I get into the basics, the most important thing to realize is that there is no magic pill when it comes to seducing a man. Every guy is different, but there certainly things you can do that will improve your chances of attracting men to you.

How to seduce a man is not as difficult as some advice out there would lead you to believe. Most men have a certain ‘triggers’ or ‘hidden switches’ that they all get turned on by. And a lot of these switches will make perfect sense when you know what to pay attention to.

Let’s now take a look at each of the 5 tips:


I have always been a big believer that it all starts with confidence. In fact, you could look like a smoking hot supermodel, but if you are insecure and don’t believe in yourself, then that won’t get you very far at all.

Confidence can be as simple as having a nice haircut, dressing well, losing some weight, or doing anything that makes you feel better about yourself. Generally when people feel better about themselves, they have a radiance that shines.

Many of the men that I have spoken to say, that they find confidence in a woman extremely intoxicating and confidence alone can attract a man. Many will also agree that insecurity is a huge turnoff.

How do you get higher confidence without having to spend a small fortune though? Well you don’t, because confidence mostly is a state of mind. As long as you make a decent effort with your appearances, and have the right state of mind, then these two things will help you attract a man.


The scent that you choose to wear can have a huge effect when it comes to seducing a man. It’s actually a subconscious influence that magically goes to work for you in the background while the man you are pursuing makes judgments about you.

A survey has actually revealed that 89% of men say that the scent of a woman can enhance her attractiveness. And a further 55% of those men admitted they’d get turned on just by her scent alone. So, as one of the most powerful subconscious influences that can attract a man, the right scent alone can incite a man’s lust. It’s important to get this right.

I wouldn’t normally share these, but I want to give you an opportunity of increasing you chances in seducing a man. Here are some of the best perfumes available that will get the job done in my opinion:

Maitresse By Agent Provocateur For Women

Flowerbomb By Viktor & Rolf For Women

Black Orchid Perfume By Tom Ford For Women

So, now that you have got the right scent, you need to know how to use it. The best way to enhance your sex appeal with an amazing scent, is to apply it on you’re pulse points – behind the ears, the bend of your elbow, and inside your wrists. A good trick I like to use is to spray a mist directly in front of me, and then walk into it.

The most important thing is not to overdo it. Subtlety, as with anything in seduction, is the key. Men that I have been sexual with have often told me that one of the first things they remembered about me was my amazing scent. They really do remember it girls!

Show A Little Skin, But Hide A Lot More

There is a certain way of how to dress that will drive men crazy. It’s a combination of revealing just a little bit of skin as a tease, but covering it up enough so they want to find out more.

Some women seem to think that a lot of skin is better, but this couldn’t be any further from the truth. Most men will think that too much skin is ‘slutty’ and that is a big turnoff. They end up thinking she’s ‘been around’ with too many other guys if she dresses like that.

It’s the right combination of revealing a little but not revealing too much that creates the seductive effect. Men are naturally curious creatures and their minds won’t stop ticking over as to what lies beneath the covered over areas.

It is also a great idea to always wear sexy underwear, because even though nobody else knows about it, it will make you feel very sexy about yourself just knowing what you’ve got on. Again, this will help you by boosting your confidence.

Other things that you can do to increase your sex appeal, is to wear stylish accessories that will complement your uniqueness and your own personal style.

Eye Contact

A true smile is in the eyes! Ideally your eye contact and smile should be used together. When you are seducing a man remember these two key points. 1) Make eye contact. 2) Smile at him. The smile shouldn’t be so fake that it makes you look strange, but it should be the type of smile that you have when you remember something funny by yourself.

A woman’s eye contact with a sincere smile can do deadly things to disarm a man and will have him thinking about you immediately. It’s also a huge turn on for both members of the sex to see the opposite member smiling at them. It rings out that “This person must find me attractive.”

Your eyes should say what you are thinking. If you are thinking about ripping his shirt of and making wild passionate love to him, then have that look in your eyes. Trust me here, because this really works. It conveys an enormous amount of emotion and intention towards him.

Hold the contact for a few seconds and then pull away before he does. Then make the same eye contact again with a slightly more obvious smile. Knowing how to attract a man like this with your eyes will be a secret weapon of seduction and will help in seducing a man if done right. You almost need to flirt with your eyes, before you start to flirt verbally or physically.

Body Language

Men aren’t the greatest at reading body language queues from women. It’s much more important to get the smile and eye contact right. But it is still useful to project your feminine sensual side with him. Let him know through your body language that you are interested in him – things like playing with your hair, applying lipstick or lip-gloss, or even lightly biting your lip will do just fine.

The most important thing here is how you carry yourself, because he will be watching every movement if you’ve caught his eye. Just remember the two S’s – subtle and sexy!


So if you are going to seduce a man successfully, you will need to apply all of these tips. Once you have done your end of the job, then if he is a man with any courage, he should approach you and start up a conversation with you. And then you will need to flirt with him verbally and physically, but that’s a whole other topic.

Now imagine getting all of this right, then how good would it be to get the man of your dreams? I’d love to share more tips with you on the Females Pleasure Forum. Just quickly sign up and ask away!

Did you like this post? Join us on Facebook. Join us on Twitter.